In John 10:10 Jesus promises His followers abundant life. This blog is about my life as His follower.

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Failure is Part of the Plan

Emotions can be tricky things. I've learned to refrain from depending on them, to choose to base my life and actions on what I believe to be the truth. Even so, I'm still affected by emotions.

A couple of years ago I was fired from a job after working for a company for 7 years straight, and then on and off (as they called me to come help them out in situations) for another 3 years. The termination was really about politics; some regional consultants has changed and those new to position people did things differently than I. I do not know another way to describe these folks than to say that many people would consider them low class - extremely crude and foul mouthed (I'm not talking about the occasional cuss word here, I'm referring to explicit sexual talk and intense swearing), and into drama, gossip, and vendettas. Unfortunately, I got on the wrong side of them and a couple of them basically set out to get rid of me. Since I was the one who lost her job, it could look like they were successful.

But I knew that I was in the palm of God's hand and nothing happened in my life that He did not allow. I chose to trust Him.

Initially I was bewildered, hurting, and devastated. Then I got past all of that and was hopeful; I believed that God would bring me another, better, job. Then after completing countless job applications, going to many job interviews, and dealing with rejection upon rejection, I finally had an interview with some people who I really liked. They offered me a job, but it was doing something I'm overqualified for; it's something I did for another company 16 years ago, pays 57% less than I'd been making, and did not allow me to utilize the skills I'd worked so hard to acquire. After much prayer I decided to take the job until I could get a better job.

Through all of this God has been faithful and we have always had all our needs met, although I have had to utilize a large chunk of my savings. I started this other job with high spirits, still believing God would bring something better my way.

It's been 8 months now and I'm still at that job. They're super happy with me and I enjoy the day to day work and people. But I still long for more, and continue to apply and interview for other work. I've even studied and added a certification onto my credentials during this time.

Lately I find myself struggling with discontentment, feeling disconnected and sad. It's not because I've stopped loving or trusting God (I mean, God could never allow me to get another job and I'd still choose to love Him and believe that He's got my best in His plan), and I'm still actively involved in service to others. It's just that my emotions have been having a hard time lately.

It is in the midst of this situation that I came across these words from Micah 7:7-8 during my devotions this morning:

As for me, I will look to the Lord for his help. I wait confidently for God to save me and my God shall certainly hear me. Do not gloat over me my enemies! For though I fall, I will rise again. Though I sit in darkness, the Lord himself will be my light.

So today I've been thinking about how failure shouldn't be a surprise in life; it should be, in a certain way, expected. Expected in terms of the fact that if you try challenging things, failure is a definite possibility. Logically, if you try often enough, the probability of failure increases. I'm thinking that somehow failure needs to be part of the plan, looked at as a step in route to achievement.

I know that I've learned a lot from my failures in life. Failures in marriage, with my children, in jobs, in interviews - in every situation when I have not seen the goal met, I've learned in the process. This doesn't negate the fact that failure is painful, just accepts the truth that it is inevitable. I adore the simplicity of that line in Micah: "though I fall, I will rise again".

I'm also thinking today about how failure does not have to equal defeat. God is not just the God of second chances, he's the God of countless new beginnings! That both my own mistakes and misdeeds, as well as that of others, will not keep me from His plan.

What about you, how does failure figure into your plans?

8 comments:

Being Me said...

If we have never failed , it means we have never tried because no one succeeds in everything?
We learn from them and they make us stronger.
I look at them as the potholes and rocks along my road to where I must go. The jolts and the exercise strengthen all parts of you.

Yes failure is part of the plan, this has been my life upto now, but I think I've learnt to navigate better and the road is a little smoother.

BM

David-FireAndGrace said...

Even successes fail, it is just not the end of the line.

I sort of chuckled when you said that you were doing something that you did 16 years ago for less pay. I am in fact considering that right now. ;) I want to work from home, and just do my job without the responsibility of a team that i can't really control because I didn't hire them.

I know it tough when you NEED more income. I have been there too.

Hang in there my friend. God is faithful, and you will find a better job opportunity.

Mike said...

Failure hurts.

I was recently asked to resign from our SWAT team...for much the same reason: socio-political monster devoured another victim.

I was initially crushed; devastated. After a few days, however, I was quite relieved. Maybe God views our failures as something else. I don't know what, but "failure" is merely a teaching tool that yells into our stubbornness. Well, maybe that's the case only with me :)

Today, I am thankful, quite honestly, that I was released. God knows better than I do, and I thank Him for directing my paths...even when I may choose errantly.

Keep your chin up, sister. You've got a great attitude about this whole thing. I've enjoyed reading your thoughts througout your recent job processes.

John Cowart said...

Hi Tracy,

I failed once.

It was 73 years ago and I haven't got over it yet.

What you have written here touches so many people who suffer in similar situations. My middle son is one of them, going through a situation near identical to yours except he has not found any job yet.

I suppose the Lord knows what He's doing with us... but I can't help but wonder.

However, Though He slay me, yet...

John Cowart

John Cowart said...

John again... P.S. For some reason the wrong URL comes up when I comment. My blog really has been updated since 2008. My current URL is www.cowart.info/blog/ . I have no idea why Google keeps throwing back to years ago.
John Cowart

Tracy said...

Being Me - I know that I've been both inspired and encouraged as I've read about the things God has brought you through.

David - I'm continuing to pray about your job situation and working either from home or significantly closer.

Mike - Thanks for understanding and encouraging me. You're spot on about how there are times when we think we want something we didn't get, and it's only in retrospect that we realize how much better God's path was.

John - With our national unemployment rate 9.1% as of May 2011 (and California is 11.9% & Florida 10.8%) I guess this is a lot of people's story. I hope I do not sound ungrateful for the job I do have because I am grateful for it. I'll be praying for your middle son.

jenny said...

I like this line:
God is not just the God of second chances, he's the God of countless new beginnings!

I see myself in you Ms. Tracy as I'm frustrated in finding a job as well. And every time I experience rejection, I'd always say that: "Maybe, it's really not meant and God has BETTER plans for me." Of course, the feeling of rejection is really hard to deal with but be positive :) Aja! :)

Tracy said...

Jenny - Finding a job can be much more frustrating than working at one! Sounds like you've got some great self talk going on.

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