"What if it's less important that anything ever gets fixed than that nothing has to be hidden?"
This concept reminds me of one of my favorite Bible verses from Proverbs 28:13 (NASV) that says:
He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, But he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion.
Yet sometimes people find that the local gathering of Believers, the church, is the hardest place to be real. Sometimes in our communities of faith there exists an unspoken message that everyone has this list of stuff wrong that they need to get their act together regarding.
I'm grateful beyond words for those very few people in my life who are not that way. My husband John, and those few friends that I can count on one hand, with whom I can be totally honest. Because these people in my life understand that Christ did not die on the cross so that we could get into heaven by the skin of our teeth, but while still here on earth we need to work really hard to get it right. These people show me by their friendship toward me that they know that Christ's work is already completed, and that our life here on earth is about loving each other as we mature into that completed work He has already accomplished in us. And along the way we, as John would say, give each other a lot of grace.